The Beginning

Welcome bloggers...this is the beginning of my personal revolution. I used to be shy and timid, but I'm slowly coming into myself as I get older. At 27, I'm becoming more and more liberated than I have ever been.

Honestly, I was inspired to do a blog by just dealing with everyday life and wanting to put my opinion out there. There are so any different things that I wanted to put my two cents in on, that now I have the opprotunity. I guess for my first topic, I will discuss something that has been on my mind ever since I had this conversation with a group of friends.

What exactly classifies "whoredom" (as my brother calls it)? If you are a 25 year old woman, no husband or boyfriend, and you keep it safe and secure, what's so wrong with enjoying a few different sexual partners? I'm not talking 3 or 4 in the same day or anything like that, but I'm talking you have a friend that you are insanely sexually attracted to and you allow it to go down. A few days later, you share a sexual experience with another gentleman. Does that make you are ho? I don't think so. I think that women who are comfortable with their sexuality can make those moves and still be considered ladies, just ladies who know what the hell they want. I have a friend who thinks that my philosophy is "too" liberated. I'm just becoming comfortable in my own skin. I'm beginning to feel myself just a lil bit :). I have a few men that are attracted to me and I'm not sleeping with all of them. However, there are a couple that I am insanely attracted to, but I find myself justifying my actions to my friends. Needless to say, I haven't acted on my desires because I don't want to hear the judgemental convesation that comes afterwards. I know she will ask, and I will tell her the truth. After that she will never let me live it down. See, I was in a relationship for quite a long time, almost 7 years. We talked marriage, but he just isn't ready. We have a son together and I am very respectful of him. I would never let my son see these different men that I spend time with unless one of them becomes very serious in my life. Is there something wrong with me making time for them or does that really constitute me being slutty?